Monodevelop / VS not listing iOS device

**Hy** So im trying this for 2 day i want to debug my ios app from monodevelop or visual studio
I have a windows with unity and visual studio
macbook unity, monodevelop, xcode
iOS device with the app
ALL on the same network
**what have i done** :
Build Settings : iOS development build checked and script debugging too
Player Settings: Script Backend : Mono2x
I did build and run after it Xcode installed the app on my iOS device
None of my VS and monodevelip listing my ios device
I tried stop from xcode and lunch again the app on my device , WIFI on/off
And tried computer to computer network on my mac. Its just not showing my device